HOW IT REALLY WORKSMany people ask me about the Law of Attraction. There has been a lot of media attention on it lately. Most people get frustrated when they first try to use the Law in a conscious way. I believe this is because the focus has been on "stuff" - getting things like money, cars, boyfriends etc. So, when it doesn't materialize or when people "fail" at it then they chuck the whole thing out the window.
It is very important to understand that the Law of Attraction is about energy NOT stuff. You see, like attracts like, it's true. So you attract into your physical experience the "stuff" that exactly matches your energy. However, it is not as easy as identifying different "stuff". It's much more profound than that.
I'll try to clarify it:
Usually when we want "stuff' it is because that deep down we believe that having this stuff will somehow make us happy (loved, feel safe, feel worthy etc). But that is energetically impossible because stuff cannot affect these energetic experiences (I go into great deal explaining this in my new book, The Secret of Successful Failing). However, the actual "wanting" of the stuff is a useful tool because it can help you identify that feeling that you are
really searching for.
The questions that I always ask my clients or participants is this:
WHY DO YOU WANT THAT "STUFF"? The REAL "WHY" is usually associated with a feeling in one of three general categories - Peace, Joy or Love.
Once you have identified the REAL "WHY" you want that stuff then all you have to do is focus on THAT EXACT feeling that ALREADY exists within you. You may have been disconnected from that feeling within you but now is your opportunity to reconnect and find it again. So, if you really want to feel happy or peaceful then FEEL IT RIGHT NOW. Go ahead, sit on the couch until you FEEL it RIGHT NOW. Then, when you really feel it you will have finally set in motion the Law of Attraction in a powerful way. Because now, according to the law, your physical world will begin to change in order to match your new ENERGY.
This is how it works. This is how it has always worked. Every time. You use your desires for "stuff" to help you identify the real "WHY" you want the "stuff" in the first place. It is ALWAYS a feeling. Always! Then, just find the FEELING within you NOW. Eventually, you will find that your physical world (stuff) will alter to be in alignment with your new-found feelings. Try it.
