Gina Mollicone Long | The Blog

REAL GRATITUDE
I have been working a lot lately identifying "triggers". Triggers are things that activate a limiting belief and behaviour. The theory is that the "trigger" is a clue to the origin of the limiting belief. If you can identify the trigger then you can change the limiting belief.

As you can imagine, this can be challenging at times. Today, I was faced with such a challenge. In fact, it was a challenging person. This person happened to perfectly set off one of my triggers. At first, this made me angry. But, thankfully, by being present I was quickly able to see beneath my anger and notice that she actually set off a trigger. A big one at that. Noticing this allowed me to quickly identify the trigger, thus dissipating its power over me. She actually did me a HUGE favour by activating my trigger.

In that moment of realization, I could actually generate genuine authentic gratitude for her presence. I could see the wisdom in it all. A funny thing happened when I generated this gratitude. She no longer activated the trigger. Gone. Poof! In its place was a new sensation of appreciation and desire to understand her, even give something back to her.

RECONNECTING
As my study of the Law of Attraction continues I am continuously awed by the never-ending levels of understanding and consciousness. On that note, I share another level of understanding of the Law.

The Law of Attraction is not really about getting "stuff". It is actually about getting in alignment with what is ALREADY THERE. Everything you need is already there WITHIN you. It is ALREADY THERE. The only thing missing is your connection to what is ALREADY WITHIN you. This is the deeper meaning of the Law of Attraction.

Your conscious minds decides that it wants some "stuff" (i.e. money, car, boyfriend etc). But underneath the "stuff" is the desire for a feeling (i.e. love, acceptance, security etc). First of all, the "stuff" can't bring the feeling because the feeling is already there within you. Your job is to turn inward to find the connection with that feeling. When you do that, the "stuff" in the physical world that matches the energetic vibration of the feeling that you ALREADY HAVE within you will come into your experience. That's it.

Try it!

THE GOOD, THE BAD & THE UGLY
Remember this: The Law of Attraction is a LAW. It's not a "quasi-law" or something that happens only sometimes. It does not discriminate between "good people" or "bad people" or "pious people". A law is a law. It is immutable and 100% reliable.

If you have things in your life that you are happy about then you must realize that you have attracted them. Likewise if you have things in your life that cause you to be unhappy then you must recognize that you have also attracted them.

Important point to recognize - if you have things in your life that you do not want you didn't do ANYTHING WRONG. It is just the way it is.

The "reality" of your life paints a most accurate picture of your exact energetic vibration. If you don't like what you see then look within for the change. Nothing on the outside can ever bring you anything. Remember - "things" don't bring energy! Only energy can bring things! Ever!

If you want a different physical experience in your life then you must, must, must change your energetic state. This is an internal affair. Look without for feedback and then go within to change.